寻爱的过程
人生就是为了找寻爱的过程，每个人的人生都要找到四个人。
首先会遇到你最爱的人，然後体会到爱的感觉；
因为了解被爱的感觉，所以才能发现最爱你的人；
当你经历过爱人与被爱，学会了爱，才会知道什么是你需要的，也才会找到最适合你，能够相处一辈子的人。
但很悲哀的，在现实生活中，这三个人通常不是同一个人；
你最爱的，往往没有选择你；
最爱你的，往往不是你最爱的；
而最长久的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。
你，会是别人生命中的第几个人呢？
The Love Cycle (English version copyrighted by TITOKI)
Life is about searching for your one true love. Each of us will experience at least four types of loves in our lives.
At first, you will meet the person you love (the most) and you will feel love is smiling on you.
Then you will realise how it feels to be deeply loved by someone. And thus you will find out who loves you the most.
Once you have learnt love, how to love and receive love, then only you will realise what your needs are, who is suitable for you, and who can grow old with you.
But the sad thing is, in real life, you won’t be able to find the one person whom you love the most and who loves you back the same way you love her/him.
The one you love the most might not choose you.
The one who loves you the most might not be the person you love.
And the most unfortunate thing is the person you choose to grow old with will definitely not be the one you love the most or the one who loves you the most. This is because he/she just happened to appear in your life at the right time and at the right place only (and vice versa).
So my dear friend, which place are you in (in other people's lives)?
首先会遇到你最爱的人，然後体会到爱的感觉；
因为了解被爱的感觉，所以才能发现最爱你的人；
当你经历过爱人与被爱，学会了爱，才会知道什么是你需要的，也才会找到最适合你，能够相处一辈子的人。
但很悲哀的，在现实生活中，这三个人通常不是同一个人；
你最爱的，往往没有选择你；
最爱你的，往往不是你最爱的；
而最长久的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。
你，会是别人生命中的第几个人呢？
The Love Cycle (English version copyrighted by TITOKI)
Life is about searching for your one true love. Each of us will experience at least four types of loves in our lives.
At first, you will meet the person you love (the most) and you will feel love is smiling on you.
Then you will realise how it feels to be deeply loved by someone. And thus you will find out who loves you the most.
Once you have learnt love, how to love and receive love, then only you will realise what your needs are, who is suitable for you, and who can grow old with you.
But the sad thing is, in real life, you won’t be able to find the one person whom you love the most and who loves you back the same way you love her/him.
The one you love the most might not choose you.
The one who loves you the most might not be the person you love.
And the most unfortunate thing is the person you choose to grow old with will definitely not be the one you love the most or the one who loves you the most. This is because he/she just happened to appear in your life at the right time and at the right place only (and vice versa).
So my dear friend, which place are you in (in other people's lives)?
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